A HAPPY FAMILY

A HAPPY FAMILY

Last night, I went out to Tanah Rata with my friends and we went to my friend's restaurant to watch football match.

The most exciting game Netherlands versus Slovakia.

Before I go to the restaurant, I went to order some burgers. After I paid money, I took away burgers and then I brought it to the restaurant. I ordered rabbit meat burger.

Oh my gosh! This is a damn delicious burger that I had never eaten.

In this moment, I was thought back an exhilarating scene when I was waiting the burger seller frying burger meat.

The burger seller's name is Rahim. Rahim together with his family are selling burger during night. His burger’s stall is located near the Maybank Street.

I saw his wife is helping him and three cuties played around there. Two boys and one girl, I think they are Rahim's sons and daughter.

This is because their eyes are seemed like their mother.

A pair of sparkling eyes.

It’s so beautiful.

I can feel the warmth of their family. I can witness that Rahim possessed the faithfulness as a husband to his wife. He owned the responsibility as a father to his children.

Likewise, his wife possessed the devotion as a wife to her husband.

My friend said Rahim is a government staff. He is daytime working in the office and selling burger beside the street during nighttime.

In my perception, although selling burger is not so profitable, but he can accompany his family to earn some money together is the most crucial point. This is a sweet family. They are living in a simple life. Smile is always on their face. Also, the happiness is always along with them.

As a man, we should always be concerned about our family. We are responsible to earn money for our family. Never let our family members to get hurt. Love our family.

Only love can bring the happiness in our life.

爱不在就放手

爱不在就放手

有时觉得爱情的感伤不一定是心碎的,反而太在意收获的人就会失去了很多人生的美好。就算是你不停地去追求, 不停地去妄想，不停地去可望，到达了最后，你的人生也不一定会是完美的。请千万要记住，每当爱一不在，就好要放手，千万别把它变成负累, 就算你痛到心碎也要走出这个忧伤的包围。别把自己当成别人的笑话，继续留恋只会遭到别人对你冷笑及忽视。

要告诉自己，不管发生什么事，成熟地去看待每一件事情才是最佳的良策。曾经有个女孩常常在我耳边提醒我，她说二十岁了就应该要成熟了，因为那时我真得好不成熟。她这番话改变了我对每一件事情的看法。对的，有了成熟的想法，就很容易放下每一件事情。不管是什么事情或难题都好，都很容易地去解决掉它。不过，可悲的是常常想着成熟，反而整个人变得的很假。就好像变成了一个小丑。在人面前总是扮演着一个很快乐的人，口多多还带有小孩子气，常常还被人说幼稚。等到一个人时，整个人就变得很沉默很低潮，头脑老是想着下一步应该怎么走，思考是否自己的选择是正确的。很不快乐。

也许，沮丧只是人的一段隧道，就让它过去，隧道里面虽然是黑暗的，让你害怕，但只要一直走，总会走到出口。要相信隧道外，又是一片蓝天，又是人生的一个美好开始。有了美好的开始，就应该去定下一个人生的新目标，向往未来的方向前进，好好地把握自己的未来。爱情中有快乐，也有沮丧，那是正常的。人生有起有落，缘分也一样，会到来也会失去。只好告诉自己，再等下一个缘份的到来，再一次的好好珍惜它。在爱情方面，失败也只不过是人生的一个“过渡期”。有了过渡，思想才会有成长，人才会长大，有时觉得应该向那些让你失败的人说声“谢谢”，因为是她们让你长大了。

还有，我们需要总结昨日的情伤，我们不能对过去的失误和不愉快耿耿于怀，伤感也罢，这都不能改变过去，不能使你更聪明，更快乐。如果总是背着沉重的怀旧包袱，为逝去的感伤不已，那只会白白耗费眼前的大好时光，也就等于放弃了现在和未来。有好多人不停地追求爱的幸福，结果到达了最后只得到了悲伤而已。若她是你的，那她就注定是你的了；若她不是你的，你一辈子也不可能得到她。对于爱的幸福，急切的追寻只会得到更多的悔恨抱怨，不如劝你静心地去等候吧！追回过去，只能失掉现在；失掉现在，哪有未来！正如俗话所说：“为误了头一班火车而懊悔不已的人，往往还会错过下一班。”

此外，心里总是觉得只要有等待，就一定会有奇迹的出现。不过，时间一长，心自然就会累了，就会从希望变成失望，然后再从失望变成绝望。一旦到达了绝望，心就自然会死，就再也不会去渴望这些东西了。有很多人因为一时接受不到自己被忽视了，就把自己给搞到很情绪化，到处去发泄，还成为了别人的笑话，听到了觉得很可悲。以前，我也超想要拥有这些爱情的感觉，能够和伴侣一起过着甜蜜蜜的日子，那种感觉是超好的。是幸福。但是，现在并不是这样觉得了，现在的我只有前途才是比任何东西都还要来得重要。伴侣完了还能再找，前途没了就只剩下一个‘惨’字。我会这样去想，也许之前我真的差一点失去了前途，所以现在好珍惜它。

或许时间过得真的好快，我早已习惯了一个人...

记住，爱不在就放手，要有骨气地活下去，要相信明天会更好，下一站幸福还在等着你。

换句话说，一切都是命，要顺其自然，要以平常心去看待。

是命。